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Ohh wow we may have listened to a little too much Birdman

Kiddo is cooing like Birdman does (when he is driving around collecting members of his crew from street corners)

"Gotta run when I hear that bird call" says Lil Wayne

I don’t have a type

However, there are a bunch of different characteristics that are likely to grab me when I see them in different people

I figured out I was powerless to resist Penelope because she’s two different ways that often do it for me. I love small, thick, pretty girls. I also love tough Bay girls with makeup and big earrings, classy/trashy, smart, fearless. Clearly if you are both of those, you are absolutely going to do it for me. 

Ugh, I’m gross, as Penelope says


i think the best sex doesn’t come from you looking up the instructions on how to have sex or give head

the best sex in the beginning is fun and exploratory and awkward and messy and funny and passionate and nervous and exciting

and instead of treating your partner like a machine, figuring out steps A-F and buttons to push to turn them on

it should be a lot of

"do you like this?"

"does this make you feel good?"

"do you like it like that?"

a lot of touching and trial and error and reading their body and listening to their moans and gasps for air

there is not Cosmo survey or master list for how to give your partner an orgasm

everyone has different turn ons and offs

the only key

is listening to your partner’s needs and getting joy from pleasing them

and being vocal about your needs and being with someone excited to please you

Free PDF Books on race, gender, sexuality, class, and culture


Found from various places online:

The Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paulo Freire

Angela Y. Davis - Are Prisons Obsolete?

Angela Y. Davis - Race, Women, and Class

The Communist Manifesto - Marx and Engels

Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde

Three Guineas by Virginia Woolf

Critical Race Theory: An Introduction by Richard Delgado and Jean Stefancic

The Black Image in the White Mind: Media and Race in America- Robert M. Entman and Andrew Rojecki

Ain’t I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism - bell hooks

Feminism is for Everybody - bell hooks

outlaw culture - bell hooks

Faces at the Bottom of the Well - Derrick Bell

Sex, Power, and Consent - Anastasia Powell

I am Your Sister - Audre Lorde

Patricia Hill Collins - Black Feminist Thought

Gender Trouble - Judith Butler

Four books by Frantz Fanon

Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neale Hurston

Medical Apartheid - Harriet Washington

Fear of a Queer Planet: Queer Politics and Social Theory  - edited by Michael Warner

Colonialism/Postcolonialism - Ania Loomba

Discipline and Punish - Michel Foucault

The Gloria Anzaldua Reader

Capitalist Realism: Is There No Alternative? by Mark Fisher

This Bridge Called by Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color by Cherríe Moraga & Gloria Anzaldúa

What is Cultural Studies? - John Storey 

Cultural Theory and Popular Culture - John Storey 

The Disability Studies Reader 

Michel Foucault - Interviews and Other Writings 

Michel Foucault - The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1Vol. 2Vol. 3 

Michel Foucault - The Archeology of Knowledge 

This blog also has a lot more. 

(Sorry they aren’t organized very well.)

Just need to calm down

Klonopin was so useful but nah

Calm breathing ad nauseam

Also reminding myself I’m just doing my thing, responding to what’s around me, it’s natural, and there is no real catastrophe even tho my heart rate indicates that there should be

Beach this weekend fuck yes



Today I let one of the girls at my internship paint my nails. A few girls exclaimed, “that’s weird!” and one boy timidly asked, “are you actually letting her paint your nails?” I told them that boys are allowed to paint their nails and asked them who told them they couldn’t? None of them had an answer. And one-by-one the boys came over to the nail painting station and started doing their own nails, and each others nails, and one boy even got really excited and asked if he could do my other hand and it was just a really cool thing to see.
When the parents came to pick up the kids, the boy who had enthusiastically painted my nails, started scraping off his nail polish. I asked him why he was doing that an he said that one time he wore his sister’s nail polish and his dad gave him a “whoopin’”. And then, in the meekest voice I’ve very heard, he whispers, “but next time I come to [the program], I think I’ll just paint them again, anyways… I think sometimes parents can be wrong about stuff too.” I half-smiled and whispered back, “I think you might be right.” And helped him take the rest off with nail polish remover.

And that was the coolest moment of my day.

And you are definitely a great person

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